Showing posts with label Life Highs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life Highs. Show all posts

Monday, February 28, 2011

Bonus Time

It’s important to celebrate the little things. I get reminded of that nearly every day at this point in my life. Things like:

  • How good it feels to clean out your ears with a warm Q-tip
  • The magic of Potato/Leek Soup
  • Coming home to the greeting of a dog
  • Clothes that fit

This is a ‘living simply’ time for me, and one that increasingly is becoming a life choice more than a necessity. It’s a fitting line of thinking for me in this Ayyami-Ha season. A new beginning. Keep only what you need and only that which works. Jettison the rest and revel in the freedom and bliss that comes from simplicity. Let that freedom create the ability to respond to magical moments in life.

One of those magical moments happened this weekend, in fact. M had a date with her Mother to see the OBT professional dancers perform on Saturday. That left R with nothing to do on a Saturday night. I was informed that he could spend the evening with me if he wished; he wished; and so did I.

Now, full disclosure: I had planned to spend some evening time with my friend, D. This was, after all, my “weekend off”, so I’d planned some clothes shopping*, a trip to IKEA**, and a Saturday evening meal with D.

With the opportunity to spend time with R popping up short-notice, it was easy to adjust. D thought roller skating would be a lot of fun, so we merged everything. R tagged along on our meal / D tagged along on the impromptu boys night out, and I got to spend great social time with two delightfully witty and intelligent human beings. To watch R’s emerging mastery of sarcasm go toe-to-toe with D’s mastery of irony as a comedy device, was really cool. While I certainly could have joined in, it was much more fun to keep quiet, let them spar, and enjoy their fun. It was really, really cool for me to watch the two of them get acquainted. My son will do well in the world as he grows up. I can rest easy in that.

It was an Ayyami-Ha night. Celebrations all around, in ways that match the style of the individual members of the family.  Simple. Joyous. Freeing.

It was Bonus Time. And such a bonus it was. A “Bounty of Bonus” one might say…

Throughout this week, the kids and I will consult on a plan for our weekend together coming up. I wonder what else we can incorporate for Bonus Time?

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* I’m slowly gathering up some ‘skinny’ clothes to fit my svelter self. Right now, I’m wearing size 30 waists where I used to wear 33 waists. Needless to say, the old pants are pretty saggy when they’re 3-4 inches too big in the waist.

** My first trip to IKEA for me. Overwhelming without a guide.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

This is NOT a Joke

sunstone holiday party 2006On April 1, 2005, my lovely wife was diagnosed with stage 2 Breast Cancer. The rest of the year was devoted to two surgeries, six months of chemotherapy and eight weeks of radiation treatments.

Today represents the five year anniversary of that eventful diagnosis.

It also represents the five year anniversary that makes for an official Cancer Survivor.

I kid you not.

Friday, February 5, 2010

REAL Science

Specifically, R’s science project. Hydroponics In Space. I’d blogged about R’s project before. This week is where all the hard work came together.

The big science project, I’m told, had two possible due dates:  Feb 5 if you want to be considered for the State Science Fair, and Feb 19th if you don’t want to be a State candidate. R wanted to be a State Science Fair candidate, so we scheduled up to hit the earlier deadline.

And he did. As I left for work this morning, he was loading his Science Fair exhibit and his 10 page Science Report into the car.

My earlier blog post covered some of the details about the results and the analysis, so I won’t duplicate that here. But what was cool was how R endeavored to work ahead of his deadline. Here are some examples:

  • R was stuck on how to make an exhibit for his project. At first, he was just going to clue each page of his printed report to the poster board and be done.  I helped him understand that the two mediums, report and exhibit, were very different. He allowed me prototype his exhibit with paper and pencil to make a compelling story. This planning process helped him a LOT, it turns out. He felt much more at ease when he had a template to build to…
  • Further setting the stage for success, R took his paper/ pencil prototype to school on the Monday before, to consult with his teacher. By getting early feedback on the plan, R could easily adjust his work to meet the teacher’s expectations, and probably improve his grade (plus, now the teacher knows that R’s organized and on-task a week ahead of the deadline. Good politics, that!)
  • On Tuesday, R took the first draft of his report to school to consult with the teacher on that. Again, the teacher now knows that R has “this” much work done by Tuesday, well ahead of the deadline. R brought back the remarks and we made slight changes.
  • C helped R get started on his board. I must admit, a huge science fair exhibit board, blank, is an intimidating amount of emptiness to fill. Even to me that first look at the empty board feels as big as handpainting a highway billboard with a kitchen sponge.
    C helped him get started. They had to stay up late on Wednesday night, but they got a lot done. By the time I got home from my trip on Thursday, things were nearly complete. I helped with three finishing touches, then I assisted in getting the report printed out on paper, and we were done. R got to bed at a reasonable hour and started his Friday well rested.

As luck would have it, I came across a technical publication describing a very similar experiment currently underway on the International Space Station. The lab module attached to the outside of the ISS is investigating the effectiveness of different plants and care strategies for space-bound horticulture. We printed out the article and attached it to the exhibit. Why? Because R’s work is directly related. We get to make the point(mostly to R, frankly) that he just did real science.

I’ll update with pics later. I’m proud of him; this turned out well.

UPDATE:  R informed me last night that he was not selected for the State Science Fair. He was very apologetic that he didn’t make the cut. I assured him that, even though he didn’t get to go forward, he delivered real science, well communicated, and in his own hand. I’m proud of him anyway. There will be other opportunities.

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Cleanliness is next to Godliness

 

I just snipped this email from my personal in box… Delighted to post it here. I’d read it to you myself, but there’s something in my eye…

 


From:     C 
To:       N
Date:     Tue, Nov 17, 2009 at 4:43 PM
Subject:  News from Dr. Chxx
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Nojo,

Ce – le -- brate good times,come on!!!

Clean bill of health from Dr. McCoy…ok Dr. Chxx, but the same emotion reigns.

Complete pathology came back today:  …no cancer…no pre-cancer…no medical jargon that I can’t understand…no need for second opinion……. unequivocally…. totally clean… and normal.

O.K. to cry now!

C

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

M is an Angel

As in, an Angel in the OBT Nutcracker.

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We just found out on the casting update. Here are her performance dates:

Day

Date

Curtain

Saturday Dec 12 2pm
Saturday Dec 12 7:30pm
Thursday Dec 17 7:30pm
Friday Dec 18 7:30pm
Sunday Dec 20 1pm
Sunday Dec 20 6:30pm
Tuesday Dec 22 2pm
Tuesday Dec 22 7:30pm
Wednesday Dec 23 7:30pm
Saturday Dec 26 2pm
Saturday Dec 26 7:30pm

If your tickets to the OBT Nutcracker just happen to line up with one of these dates, then you can feel free to silently cheer her on as she floats that angel dress like nobody’s business!

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Monday, September 21, 2009

A quick photo album from the Whale Trip

Last Saturday, the Typhoon hit the water for a trip that turned out to be MUCH more enjoyable than expected. C had always wanted to go whale watching and to get up-close-and-personal with the whales. So she took the initiative to find whale watching trips out of DePoe Bay, where ocean access is just minutes from the dock, and where the whales hang out just feet from the cliffs along the shore.

Our tour was on a Zodiak captained by a Marine Biologist Doctoral candidate from OSU who has studied the Gray Whales of the Oregon Coast for almost ten years. She’s written books on the topic, done extensive cetacean research, and taught the kids a BUNCH about Gray Whales.

It didn’t take long for our guide to figure out that – scattered amongst our family members – was an amazingly wide range of detailed knowledge about oceanography, whales, whaling and fur trading history, physics, local customs, DePoe Bay history, and fisheries. We might have looked like city slickers, but we changed that perception right away! I think our guide had as much fun with us as we had with her and her dog, Kita.

Way back when C suggested a whale watching trip, the kids and I were rather ho-hum about it. We envisioned a large boat like the Monterey Bay trip. While I knew how short a trip it is into the Ocean at DePoe Bay, I didn’t know about Zodiak tours.

Once we got there, and got comfy in the four chairs on the Zodiak, everyone got rather excited. Then, five minutes later, we were bow to nose with a gray whale barely even out of the harbor. Being that close, at water level, for an extended period of time, made all the difference for the kids. They enjoyed the experience thoroughly. So did C. Me? Yeah. I had a lot of fun too.

What I enjoyed most was watching my family spend two solid hours brimming with excitement and amazement. They were unabashed in their awe. The “cool factor” was off the charts. C scored a major victory with this particular trip; it was fun to watch her own personal triumph.

Another item checked off on C’s post-cancer bucket list. Nice!

Friday, September 18, 2009

Nutcracker Audition Update

M got a response from the School of Oregon Ballet Theater yesterday at class… she’s been invited to attend the rehearsals for Nutcracker.

The invitation letter was carefully written. Being invited to rehearsals does not guarantee a performance opportunity, just that the student is allowed to attend rehearsals and learn the part. The student’s performance at rehearsal is how they will make their final selections.

Wow.

M’s rehearsals are at noon on Saturdays, starting this coming Saturday, running through the end of October.

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Hey, Who’s The New Kid?

R and M have been going to fencing class most of the summer. I’ve blogged about it before. I think the timing was somewhat inspired, to be honest. Here’s why.

Turns out that the Fencing studio does a lot more business during the school year (go figure!), and that class attendance drops to almost zero for the summer months. That meant that, while M and R were just starting out, they got to do all their crazy, clumsy, how-do-I-do-this-again? stuff in relative obscurity. Everyone else, who’s been fencing longer, was on vacation. R and M had the instructor all to themselves for ten weeks uninterrupted.

So. Now, the rest of the students have returned. They’re picking up where they left off, but there’s a new kid in each respective class. And – surprise! surprise! – these new kids know a wee bit about the sport!

In both M’s class, and in R’s class, it’s the Johnson kids who seem to regularly get used as examples of what to do. It’s the Johnson kids who pay the best attention to the instructor. It’s the Johnson kids (R, specifically) who have the basics down enough to elicit public praise from the instructor.

This is a darned good thing. Especially for R.

Last night, for example. There are four boys in R’s class. Zach, the instructor, drilled them on parry-riposte for the first half of class, then had them spar with those same drills to finish class. In R’s case, he was consistently outscoring the other boys. Now, I don’t mean to take away from R, but it wasn’t so much that he was all that good. Rather, he was just not making mistakes. The other three were making technique mistakes all over the place. All R did was do the drills correctly, wait for a mistake from his opponent, then take the easy touch when the mistake happened. And, like I said, the other three made enough mistakes that R didn’t have to wait very long. Interestingly enough, when the other boys sparred with themselves, with both sides making lots of mistakes, the sparring seemed evenly matched. It wasn’t until they sparred with R that their overall weakness in the drills became apparent.

So, Zach debriefed each of the four after sparring. To each boy he asked the question, “How did you get touched during the drill?” and each boy did a self-analysis of the mistakes they made. R was last in this process. Zach turned to R and said “How did you get…No, strike that. How was it that you so easily made all those touches?” Zach took R’s answer and used it as a lesson for the other three. Part of Zach’s lesson: in fencing, the point often comes only because your opponent made a mistake. if your mistake comes after theirs; it won’t matter. Because their mistake got you the point.

Then, after dismissing class, Zach made a beeline to me, saying “If R keeps fencing like he did just now, none of these other three will ever touch him. When he just listens and does what I tell him, good things happen.”

M’s class is different, but the theme holds. M is, by far, the smallest in her class. And last Tuesday was her first time with the full class of children. A couple of the other girls – a little older and feeling well-established in the class – did a little bit of verbal putting down of M. That didn’t last long. Zach jumped right in, defending M by saying  that “she knows quite a bit about fencing. She’s been coming all summer while you’ve been on vacation.” A bit later, Zach used M as an example to the rest of the class for good footwork.

I can’t help be feel quite proud of my kids. as they both gravitate toward this unexpected sport. It’s something else to watch them both delight in getting suited up. M wears this little plastic breastplate under her jacket. R wears knickers now, as well as a jacket. They take very little prodding to get ready for fencing. They are clearly very self motivated by the sport. And it’s a lovely thing.

Looks like the last remaining piece of R’s gymnastics equipment has been sold. I have two interested buyers. The transition seems to be complete imminently. M auditions for Nutcracker in three days… wish her luck.

Monday, August 31, 2009

Armed With: Final Update

Thanks go to our friend, MC, who held C’s hand at the doctor’s today. The biopsy was ‘normal.’ There definitely isn’t any cancer. There may even be no polyps. The doc will do a scope procedure to make 100% sure.

Prayer was Soooo appreciated. Thanks to all who helped with prayers.

We dread these close calls, these near-misses, these trips to defcon 1 followed by an unceremonious stand-down. It sucks. And the thought of ignoring these things only to lose my wife to cancer sucks infinitely more.

Sunday, August 30, 2009

A Whitewater Rafting Trip

C arranged a day trip rafting on the White Salmon River for the family. It was a much-needed day of play and family bonding, to be sure.

We drove up to White Salmon, Washington, and followed the river upstream to the town of BZ Corner, where Zoller’s Outdoor Odysseys (www.zooraft.com) has their headquarters. We got there plenty early, so we ate some lunch and relaxed. When the  time came, we – and about 25 other people – were given orientation, suited up in wetsuits, helmets and booties, and loaded into rafts at the put-in.

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Keenan was the guide for our raft. R, M C and I made up the bulk of our raft. Our new friends, Nathan and Lisa filled out the crew. Keenan is a middle school teacher; perfect to handle a boat with imagetwo elementary school aged kids on the crew!

We put Lisa and Nathan in the very front. C and I took the middle spot; R and M hung out in the back row, right in front of Keenan. Now, Keenan wouldn’t let the kids paddle through the class 4’s at the top of the route, but he was full of geology, history, and ecology information. The two precocious kids just devoured his steady stream of facts and information. We saw lava tubes, drank spring water, took the raft into a cave, spotted an osprey nest, and all other manner of cool things on the river.

Now, C and I have rafted this river once before. About two-thirds of the way down (you can see it on the map above) is a rapid labeled Husum Falls. This is a 12 foot vertical drop waterfall just under the bridge in the town of Husum. The rafts can take the Falls when the water is slow, like it is in late August. C and I had never taken the Falls plunge. So we were eager to do so. Unfortunately, liability prohibits ZOO from taking those under the age of 18 over the Falls. R and M had to shuttle out of our raft, and walk around the falls. That news really angered R. He pouted for a while. Nevertheless, Keenan held us back until he was sure the kids would be stationed to watch us all defy death with a waterfall plunge.

Of course, the whole family had just watched Indiana Jones and the Crystal Skull the night before at Laurelhurst Park. Remember the scene where they all go over the waterfalls (three times!)? That was on our minds. But, hey! Ours was only 12 feet!

When the time came, we paddled cross current, and into the channel. We paddled HARD to get as much speed as possible. Then, at the last second, Keenan told us to “GET DOWN”. We all dropped down low, grabbed the handles, and rode it out.

The raft went over pretty gracefully, really. As the nose dropped first, the raft bent in the middle. As soon as it could, the stern snapped up to make the raft straight again. That gave the back row of riders (C and I) and the guide a bit of a catapult effect. We all stayed in the boat, but C did pop out of her hunker. When the raft hit the bottom, she foundered, submerging completely and getting poured full of water from the Falls. It takes a couple seconds for the raft to regain its buoyancy and start moving downstream, but that’s just fine. It’s worth savoring the success.

At the bottom of the Falls, the kids were transferred back to our raft. C was elated. I suspect she really needed to have a personal victory – a conquest – to raise her spirits. Things have been so darned challenging lately. M was excited by our adventure; R was clearly pouting that he had to stay out.

Well, Keenan had a plan to make it up to the kids. From Husum Falls down, the rapids are pretty tame and predictable. In fact, you can sort of play around in the rapids. So we did!

There was “Ride the Bull”, where one sits on the bow of the raft with ones feet hanging over the front. You look like a hood ornament up there. Naturally, you stay in that position as you ride the rapids for a thrilling ride. R and M did a bit of that. R was too preoccupied with pouting, though. M rode the bull for the rest of the trip, however.

And, there’s a rapid (Zoller Zap on the map above) that is easily floated. M wanted to float down the rapid, so I joined her. We jumped out of the raft at the top of the rapids, got our toes sticking out in front of us, and floated the waves with our feet pointed downstream, holding hands. It was fun! M is such an adventurous sort. She loves this stuff. Keenan pulled M back into the raft; C hauled me back into the boat. Yep, we milked that trip for every participatory experience we could muster.

Dinner was a slow-paced gnosh at a patio restaurant in Husum where they serve greek food and let a Bantam rooster serenade the guests with his crows.

We definitely needed a day like this one. Because, tomorrow we find out about the biopsy results…

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

The Train’s Back On The Rails?

So, I’ve heard a rumor that My mother-in-law might be getting married after all. She’s been in Alaska all summer, with her beau. The smoke signals say they’re getting married on a boat, on the ocean, before they come back to Seattle for the winter.

I hope the utmost of happiness for her.

The timing and location seems to make it very difficult for any relatives in the lower 48 to attend the ceremony.

Friday, August 7, 2009

Ballet Promotion!

Most everyone following the family blog knows that M studies ballet. She’s been taking dance classes since she was three years old or so. She danced ballet exclusively for a couple years at Tigard’s Westside Dance Academy. Then, a year ago, we went looking for another dance school. There were some blog posts back at that time, too.

Last Fall, for a number of reasons, we chose to look around for imageanother ballet school. Blog posts at that time explain why.  On one day, while we were shopping around, M attended an open audition day at the School of Oregon Ballet Theater (SOBT) last Fall. Oregon Ballet Theater is the premiere ballet company in Oregon. The school is held in equally high regard, regularly sending students on from po-dunk Oregon to Julliard, and other college dance programs. It was worth a shot; we dared not get our hopes up. We parents were, to be honest, intimidated as all get-out by the audition.

M was accepted. Apparently, M was anything but intimidated. We enrolled her.

At first, SOBT was a bit of a step back for M. She started in the ‘First Steps’ class. She had class one day a week instead of the two she was accustomed to. The classes were very much back to the basics. No recitals. No performances.

We parents worried about this change, since M was already used to doing two performances a year, and when it came time for rectials, she was anchoring her dances. She even got to be the girl under Mother Ginger’s skirts one year. (see the video on the blog). M was very sage about this return to the beginning. Her take was that she’d spend a year in First Steps, then move up. To hear her explain  it, it was worth it to learn at SOBT, because it was ‘real’ ballet; she could tell the difference. I Had to admire a 7 year old turning 8 for having such a mature view.

So, it was a quiet year of Saturday morning ballet class. C and M attended most of the OBT shows, just to study ballet as an art form and to get familiar with performance at that level. That was pretty much it.

Then, last June, when I was downtown for a Portland Business Journal event, I walked by the Performing Arts Center. The place was mobbed. Mobbed in such a familiar way. It was recital night for Westside Dance Academy. Girls and boys of all sizes and ages were everywhere, in costume, triumphant. I felt a pang of regret for M. The big night was going on, and she’d taken a year to restart. She didn’t get a chance to dance on stage this year.

I stopped for a few minutes to absorb the energy of a Westside recital night. A Mom and Dad had their little girl between them, holding hands, swinging her in the middle as they walked down the street. Somehow, I ended up in a conversation with them. I asked the little girl how the dance went, and shared that my eight year old daughter used to dance with Westside too. We talked about her teacher, and what song she danced to. The parents asked about my daughter, and I tried to exude humility when I shared that she now dances for the School of Oregon Ballet Theater. Their eyebrows snapped up in surprise, “Really?!? Wow!”

“Well, I attribute my daughter’s acceptance on the quality of the program you’re already involved in. Westside is a good place, good people, and a good program.”

The Dad said, “Well it looks like we made the right choice. Good luck to you and your daughter. You must be very proud.”

“Just as you are, I’m sure!” I smiled. Then they were off, swinging down the sidewalk. As I walked to my car, I didn’t feel quite so sure. The doubt snuck in. Did we really do the right thing for M? I hoped so.

Well, yesterday was promotion day at SOBT. M did indeed get promoted to Level 1. Just like she planned. She’ll be back to dancing two days a week (Tues and Thurs, after school). But that’s not all.

imageShe’s been invited to audition for a role in The OBT Nutcracker. There’s no promise of a part; she’s just been asked to audition.

Nevertheless, this is the Nutcracker in Oregon during the holidays - the George Balanchine choreography as produced by Christopher Stowell.

M has danced on that same stage before – at summer recitals for Westside. But now she’ll at least have the chance to be considered for a few moments in the big one in Portland.

How could I possibly be more proud of her. Time will tell whether SOBT was the right choice for M. At this point, it sure seems like it.

Time for me to relax a little and enjoy the ride. I think. Can I get myself into that headspace?

Monday, June 15, 2009

Camping – Troop 22 Family Camp

This year’s Troop 22 Family Camp was this last weekend. We missed it last year, because we were in Disneyland. So this was the Typhoon’s first chance to go on a Family Camp. And given that we currently on a sort of hospice for our aging Akita, Akiko, we made sure to take her along for what is perhaps our last campout with the family dog.

Paulina Lake, inside the Newberry Crater, is a gorgeous alpine lake nestled into a collapsed volcanic caldera south of Bend, Oregon. Full of interesting geologic features, gorgeous views and a thriving trout population, it was a great choice for a family campout.

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Last Fall, we picked up an expedition tent from Next Adventure. Not one of those classic heavy, canvas expeditions, this one (pictured below) is nylon, utilizing a tent/rainfly construction and based on four huge poles that create a cavernous barrel-shaped interior. From end-to-end, this tent is over twenty feet long and divided into two sections. The smaller front section is called a ‘porch’. Lots of windows and a panorama view would make for a great place to hang out bug-free. The larger, more private section has room to sleep all four of us, plus the dog.

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So, its a nice tent for comfortable car camping. Ideal for Badasht and for the family camp.  Sharp-eyed readers will notice that the rain fly does not completely shade the ends of the tent. Not a problem for summer showers and the like, but a design weakness for prolonged rain.

Now, central Oregon in June is predictably pleasant. Campers can expect sunny weather interrupted maybe by a thundershower. So the irony should be evident that it came to pass that we experienced a series of thundershowers, followed by a weather front that rained about an inch on us between Friday dinner and early Sunday morning. The rain wasn’t constant, but it did indeed rain more than not.

Saturday morning, while it rained a bit, R had the first Board of Review of his scouting career. For those who don’t know, a Board of Review (BoR) is the last step to achieving a new rank in scouting. Three adults hold an interview with the scout, verify not only that he both accomplished each requirement, but also to test his understanding of what he did, and his overall poise. Pass the BoR, and the scout advances in rank. Fail the BoR, and the scout must wait a short period of time and try again. R went into his first BoR with a rank of Scout (lowest). His BoR simultaneously passed him on Tenderfoot and Second Class ranks….two ranks in one sitting. Nice!

So the Typhoon was in high spirits mid-day, when the weather broke enough for the troop to hike one-mile from the campground to an impressive lava flow chock-full of Obsidian. This photo gives a lay of the land.

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Paulina Lake is on the extreme left of the photo; with East lake in the background. Our campsite would be on the closest edge of Paulina Lake, just at the edge of the photo. The lava flow is the gray region throughout the center.

About the time we got back to the campsite, it started raining again, with that steady pelt-pelt of a rainstorm that doesn’t plan to end any time soon. So we had made good use of the break in the weather for the side trip.

Afternoon play activities did NOT stop for the rain. There was just no sensible way to keep those boys and their siblings cooped up in their respective tents while it rained. A pack of 25 rain-soaked kids was a foregone conclusion. No big deal as long as there’s one dry set of clothing and a dry tent to return to…

Saturday night’s social activity was a troop wide chili cook-off. We all had a lot of fun with that, and the chili all turned out wonderfully. Lots of good team-building and bonding took place. Of course part of the bonding was because we all had to huddle under the cooking fly shelters to escape the heavy rain from the weather front that settled over us.

Everyone ate, everyone got wet, some were soaked. Typhoon children were among the soaked. I was somewhere in the middle of helping with kitchen cleanup, when C let me know that her after-dinner tent inspection showed significant leaks from the zippers and seams on both ends of our tent. While we didn’t have water running through our tent area (drainage rivulets had started to appear all over camp by now), there was definitely a steady drip-drip-drip onto the floor. The rainfly was doing its job; the leaks were only from the uncovered ends of the tent. So that was a good news / bad news situation. Seam sealer would fix the leaks, but we’d have to get through tonight without it.

Except that C’s inspection found that an unspecified child in the family had unzipped some of the covers over the porch screens, opening the windows and letting the rain come in unabated, soaking the dry change of clothes, sleeping pads and the feet of the childrens’ sleeping bags.

Ugh.

So it came as no surprise that, at this very moment, both children appeared, overwhelmed suddenly by the cold wet condition of their clothes, near tears, begging for us parents to suddenly make them warm, dry and happy again.

There is just no good way to break the news to two soaked, shivering children that they’d been a bit negligent with the tent and, as a result, the dry and warm belongings they were depending upon were now wet and cold. It wasn’t a pretty exchange. There was some discussion of breaking camp right then. I said a firm ‘no’. We weren’t the only family having that talk at about that time. One family did leave then; their backpacking-style tents were leaking significantly and all their belongings were dripping-wet soaked.

The mitigation process took some coordinated teamwork . C directed the re-arranging of the tent’s insides, while I stood in the rain, protected by my Gore-tex rain coat, holding shoes and clothes up to the fire until the drying process reached an equilibrium with the rain still falling on the wet items. When we’d finished, we had four functional sleeping bags, two kids in dry pajamas inside those bags, and a merely damp dog lying on her dog bed covered by a dry car blanket.

For most of her life, the idea of putting a blanket over Aki was just plain impractical. That night, however, it was different. The moment I put that blanket over Aki, she gave me a look of appreciation like none I’ve ever seen before. Normally she moves around overnight, finding a couple places to sleep besides on her dog bed. This time, she stayed put. Seven hours later, the blanket was still in place with just her muzzle poking out. Just as I left her; she didn’t move a muscle.

Once we finally got everyont tucked into bed, it was M who was the first to fall asleep. C and I spent an hour or so with R, the new Second Class scout, listening to the rain outside, debriefing everything that went on during the day. It turned out that he was the one who left the tent windows open. He felt terrible about it. We talked about learning lessons the hard way. Both C and I had camping-in-the-rain stories to tell that out-did R’s lessons of the day. It made him feel better to know that we didn’t judge him harshly for his mistakes, and it helped him better understand that the guidance we give him on how to be successful is based upon our own personal experience. He’s increasingly learning that listening to experienced elders will save him the discomfort of learning the painful lesson for himself.

Everyone slept okay. Nobody was uncomfortably cold overnight. The rain stopped sometime after midnight, leaving us a damp, misty Sunday morning with raindrops still dripping from the trees overhead. At 7am revile, half the camp was already packed up. Everyone was uncomfortable and ready to get warm. Not a single person seemed inclined to linger longer than needed. The big-event Sunday breakfast was cancelled and by 8:30am, we were on the road. We had a soaked tent, a 30 gallon trashbag full of soaked clothes, a damp dog, and two cold kids as we rolled out, heater going full blast. As quickly as we got packed up and on the road, we weren’t the first family out. Others skedaddled like they were running from a forest fire.

Half an hour of drying time in the car, and everyone’s spirits were on the rise. We stopped for a big hot breakfast at the Black Bear Diner in Madras. Full stomachs finished off the recovery.

By 2pm, we were home and unpacking the car.

By 4PM, sleeping bags were already fluffed dry. The tent was set up in the backyard, ready for seam sealer.

By dinner time Sunday, the sun had dried the tent, and R and I had applied five tubes worth of seam sealer to the miles of stitches in our massive cathedral of a tent.  It’s going to be dry in the future, I can tell you that.

So it was quite a trip. A lot of lessons learned. I’m glad we went.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Blast From The Past

I stumbled across this photo of C and I. This was back in 1995 or so. We were hosting some Asian students of mine on a spring hike at Silver Falls. 

cate and nolan 001

That was a great day…what a singular time in our lives. We were a duo for all of 18 months; we’ve been a family for twelve years.

Monday, March 2, 2009

Dog Update

It is indeed just a urinary tract infection (UTI). The doc, however, does call it a “hummer” of an infection. She identified over a half-dozen bacteria that cause UTIs in the sample we took over the weekend – a coordinated attack. Left untreated, this UTI would eventually turn fatal. So we’re glad we caught it. UTIs are common for old dogs. The vet assures us that we’ll clear this one up, and Aki will probably do just fine in the warmer weather. Looks like she’s with us for a good while longer!

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

More UW Gym Meet Video - Pommel

 

R's Mushroom base arrived yesteday. Now he's got a setup just like you see in the start of this video. Daily practice, yeah?

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Thinking of Grandma

I'm wearing my ski sweater that my Grandmother made for me before she died. I think I've had this sweater since the late '80s. She made this sweater for me when I started skiing.  It's wool, and grey with a pattern of snow flakes and shapes that make it look like snow's piling up on the window panes. It has a monsterous and functional turtleneck. Grandma made this sweater to be my primary under-coat layer, so she designed the turtleneck so it can be pulled up to act as a face gaiter in pinch. I know, I've had to use it that way before.

On cold days like today, it's nice to wear it, feel warm and think of her...a chance to honor her.

Monday, December 1, 2008

How Was YOUR Thanksgiving?

Ours was good.

We had the Thanksgiving holiday at my sister's house. Her boyfriend's family (two brothers & their SO's), along with Mom & Dad and the Typhoon. My sis lives in the hills outside the metro area. It was misty and foggy up there, but that helped set the tone of the holiday.

Sis raised quite a bird for the event: a home-grown, range fed 50-pounder! The cooks opted to cut the bird in half and *only* serve up 25 pounds of roasted bird.  And it was GOOD!

R and M were the only children present. They spent most of the afternoon playing in the pole barn with my sister's barn cat (really, just a very socialized kitten) and rough-housing with the four dogs. But then there were the horses.

See, my sister built her horse paddock in such a way that three sides of her house are contained within the paddock.  That's not such a big deal,except that the horses and my sister have developed a trait in which the horses feel safe sticking their head inside one of the windows, looking for a treat. Sort of a horse-based fast food drive-up. The kids really got a kick out of that!

Football was on, naturally. That took up the attention for the three brothers, and Grandpa. I watched some, but took the opportunity to take a nap as well. M brought her Whoonuu game, which got a lot of play with the ladies.

The kids got to play some Nintendo Wii for the first time in almost four months (ours has been put away until just this weekend - parents had to make a statement) after all the football games were done. So, we didn't leave on the 30 mile drive home until almost 11pm.

It was fun, though. It was a good time. Thanks for hosting a nice, jovial, harmonious event, Sis. We sure appreciated it.

Friday, November 7, 2008

Blazer Game

image Thanks to our friends, the Loverinks, for helping us score four tickets to last night's Blazers-Rockets game. Final score: 101 to 100, Blazers in overtime. Blazers won the game on a buzzer-beater shot on an inbound pass with 0.8 seconds to go.

From this morning's article in The Oregonian:

"It is, and maybe always will be, one of the greatest shots in Trail Blazers history.

"And it came after Brandon Roy was about to be a goat for at least 48 hours.

"I thought I lost the game," Roy said.

"In a stunning end to a grueling and sometimes ugly game, Roy swished a long three-pointer at the overtime buzzer on an inbound play that started with 0.8 seconds left that gave the Blazers a 101-99 victory over the Houston Rockets on Thursday.

"Wow. Unbelievable shot," Roy said. "I can't say I called it. It was a blessing from above."

"Roy's shot was the ultimate ending to a see-saw final two seconds that saw him make what many thought was a game winning shot with 1.9 seconds left, only to have it erased by a three-point play by 7-foot-6 center Yao Ming with 0.8 seconds left. Yao was awarded the go-ahead free throw after Roy reached in and fouled him while he made a baseline jumper."

The kids had a blast at a delightful game. I got to explain a bit about how basketball works to my lovely daughter; my son already gets the basics of the game, so he was right in it.

imageThe thing they liked best? The blimp that flies around the stadium and drops coupons. Oh, they liked the T-shirt cannons, too.

It was Kevin Duckworth tribute night, so that was fun, if also a little bittersweet. Blazer alumni were there. Chris Dudley worked one of the T-shirt cannons. Somewhere in the fourth quarter, while the fancam was running on the arena jumbotron, the whole family suddenly popped up. The camera framed the four of us: M and I grooving to the music; R bopping around, all involved; C sitting stately and contemplative, yet clearly watching the game closely. The kids were thrilled. Everybody around us was excited for the kids.

We were up really late last night. The kids will probably be useless at school today. But they got to go, and they had a lot of fun.

Thanks again for the chance to go, Loverinks -- it was awesome!

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Oh, our second house is being shown today. Just a little thing, that...