Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Looking Back on the Blog:

One Year Ago:
  • After the Mercedes got totaled in mid September, N was driving the XJ8 for the first time
  • M was getting acquainted with dancing at SOBT
  • R was getting familiar with the new gymnasium and a familiar coach
  • Wreath sales were starting up for both Boy Scouts *AND* OBT

Two Years Ago:
  • Paul Gulick retires from Planar
  • Johnson family working with multiple contractors, rehabilitating Stark house

Three Years Ago:
  • Johnson family starts house hunting to relocate to SE or NE.
  • Race for the Cure
  • C gets clean cancer scans
  • R attends Webelos Woods event


Ya Abha Baha'u'llah!

It's a prayer. Ya Abha Baha'u'llah invokes the protection of the Glory of God. Other Baha'is will understand that this invocation brings the immediate support of the celesial concourse, but that's not what I'm here to write about.

For the past few weeks, I've been building my daily prayers around this invocation, praying for strength, going straight to God with requests for victories, for protection of those I love, for wisdom for those who are working on my family's behalf in whatever capacity, for the harmony and unity of my family members. I'm heartened in doing so, and glad I've been at it for a while, because today I need that strength.

C's GYN called today, informing us that the polyp is not cancerous, but qualifies for what they call 'pre-cancerous.' The presence of a pre-cancerous polyp in that region brings C's probability for future cancer up to the 20% range. Understandably, C will be going in for pre-emptive surgery mid-November.

[remember, though, I only blog about good news on the family blog!!]

   - There's no cancer there now.
   - Pre-cancer does not mean that there would EVER be any cancer in the future.
   - The docs are taking out all the parts that run a high risk of follow-on cancer.
   - Withall the high-risk parts gone, there's no place to GET cancer.

So there! It's a surgery. It's six weeks or so of recovery. We can cope with it; it's a pre-emptive strike. It's a victory to find it now, instead of when it's too late. It's a survival ticket.

Ya Abha Baha'u'llah.

Now, somehow, I must get on with my day.



Tuesday, September 29, 2009

... It nearly KILT Him!!

I've mentioned in passing a couple times that I was expecting a kilt. It arrived yesterday.

C acquired a black Utilikilt brand kilt. Now, this is not your traditional Scottish tartan type garment. Utilikilt positions itself as an alternative, modern, non-traditional, Americanized version of the traditional kilt. Perhaps the highest profile presence of a Utilikilt was on the body of the original Survivor, Richard Hatch, during his successful run at the million dollars (no word whether Hatch still wears his kilt in prison, thanks to his mishandling of that same million dollars).

When my kilt arrived, I found it to be made of a heavy denim-like material (some call it duck cloth, I believe). The waistband wraps around, and a double row of snaps, in a sort-of chevron pattern (think the front of a traditional sailor's pants), hold the kilt together. The belt then locks the waistband together, providing fit and security. One back pocket, and two cargo pockets on the side make for useful and ample stowage. No need for a sporran here, though one certainly could add a sporran, if one wanted...

To put it on for the first time, i found I just wrapped  it around my waist, snapped the snaps, and ran my belt through the loops. There. Done. Dressed! The waist naturally rides right above the hip bones, just below the bellybutton. The hem of the kilt hits just above the knee. I paired it with a long-sleeved white nylon pullover meant for cold weather running - going casual.  I stepped out into the living room, to show C and M, who were anxiously awaiting the first peek of Dad in a Kilt.

"That looks great!" and "Fantastic, Dad!" were the reactions that greated me.

And you know, it was quite comfortable, without seeming like I was exposed in any way. To put this in terms a man who's never worn a kilt might relate to, it's a lot like wearing a bathrobe, except that it fastens MUCH more securely than a bathrobe. It only took a couple minutes to realize I could trust the kilt to stay put much more than I could ever trust a bathrobe to keep me modest.

C's choice of a black duck cloth made the kilt extremely versatile. We found that it dresses UP well with a business-appropriate button-down oxford (with a tie, even!), and dressed DOWN nicely with athletic gear, a t-shirt, or a pullover sweatshirt for a casual look.

The moment of truth, naturally, was deciding to wear the kilt out into public. The Boy Scout troop meeting was starting in a bit... did I dare take my kilt - on its first wearing, mind you - out to a scout meeting with 20 some teenage boys? Sure, I decided. No time like the present to face the most challenging audience. Of course, I checked with R beforehand, to make sure he wouldn't be embarrassed. He took one look at the kilt on me, said, "that's cool!" and gave me the greenlight for the scout meeting. So, with the backing of all my family members, off we went to boy scouts.

The reaction at the scout meeting was almost non-existant (whew!). People noticed, but mostly said nothing. A couple of the older boys asked me about it, very casually. Invariably, each one of those boys was wearing nylon basketball shorts that reached to their knees. I just drew the parallel between what they were wearing and what I was wearing. They both had the ah-hah experience that we were really dressed very similarly and expressed their acceptance that the kilt was "pretty cool"

There you have it - buy-in from the 16 year old boy scouts. They're not going to be nice 'just because', they're going to tell it as they see it. Their buy-in is a true seal of approval.

This will be fun, I think, as we go through the Autumn. Besides around-the-house wear, I can already see how I'd want to take my kilt travelling, camping ... even use it for certain non-business dress-up events. Yep, This will be fun.






Monday, September 28, 2009

Don’t Count Your Chickens…well, maybe just a little bit of counting…

Classes are just starting at the state universities this week… the true signal of Autumn. This weekend was filled with a number of pleasant events and experiences that have the members of Typhoon Johnson feeling more up-beat, though still cautiously optimistic:

  1. We had a combined birthday dinner for R and M with Grandma Gin and Grandpa Jerry last night. Spaghetti Factory, and Grandma’s homemade chocolate cake.cake
  2. C is getting busy on her writing contract.sun
  3. We got a serious inquiry from a party that wants to lease-option the SE Portland house.
  4. The sales process for the SE Portland house continues to look stronger and stronger.
  5. R and I had a great Boy Scout weekend in east county. R learned how to shoot a rifle and a shotgun. He also put in HOURS of archery practice on the archery range.
  6. My project with Stuart continues to look like it will produce good results.
  7. M’s ballet rehearsals continue to go well. I notice that M is increasingly identifying with ballet as a part of who she is. Last night, she used the back of the sofa as a barre and extemporaneously danced to the music on the stereo.
  8. imageM has a new pair of converse-style tennis shoes that are rhinestone encrusted (courtesy of Patti!) They’re so absolutely M. rainbow
  9. R’s big science assignment is due at the end of the month. He’s already completed it – with almost no parental hounding, and minimal help editing his writing – and is ready to turn it in. Three days early. Teachers are consistently commenting on Ryne’s increased maturity.lightbulb
  10. The family vegetable garden is delivering a harvest that delights the whole family. My sisters chickens are keeping us well stocked with eggs. plate
  11. C has learned the power of ebay. She’s in the process of equipping R and herself with high-quality equipment for about 25% of the cost for new, and still 50% below the cost of new beginner-level gear. She’s shopping very wisely for good gear.

I dunno. There are glimmers of hope, glimpses of strength and of prosperity in the future.  Still, most of these fertile-looking eggs have yet to hatch. I continue to keep my cool about the emerging good news, I am hopeful that we will roll into winter with some blessings on our side. Autumn is the time of the harvest; when the bounties are put in the barn and prosperity is measured. I feel as if this very thing – a harvesting of blessings – is currently underway. I guess I’m not so much counting my chickens, as I’m budgeting room for them! smile_regular

Monday, September 21, 2009

A quick photo album from the Whale Trip

Last Saturday, the Typhoon hit the water for a trip that turned out to be MUCH more enjoyable than expected. C had always wanted to go whale watching and to get up-close-and-personal with the whales. So she took the initiative to find whale watching trips out of DePoe Bay, where ocean access is just minutes from the dock, and where the whales hang out just feet from the cliffs along the shore.

Our tour was on a Zodiak captained by a Marine Biologist Doctoral candidate from OSU who has studied the Gray Whales of the Oregon Coast for almost ten years. She’s written books on the topic, done extensive cetacean research, and taught the kids a BUNCH about Gray Whales.

It didn’t take long for our guide to figure out that – scattered amongst our family members – was an amazingly wide range of detailed knowledge about oceanography, whales, whaling and fur trading history, physics, local customs, DePoe Bay history, and fisheries. We might have looked like city slickers, but we changed that perception right away! I think our guide had as much fun with us as we had with her and her dog, Kita.

Way back when C suggested a whale watching trip, the kids and I were rather ho-hum about it. We envisioned a large boat like the Monterey Bay trip. While I knew how short a trip it is into the Ocean at DePoe Bay, I didn’t know about Zodiak tours.

Once we got there, and got comfy in the four chairs on the Zodiak, everyone got rather excited. Then, five minutes later, we were bow to nose with a gray whale barely even out of the harbor. Being that close, at water level, for an extended period of time, made all the difference for the kids. They enjoyed the experience thoroughly. So did C. Me? Yeah. I had a lot of fun too.

What I enjoyed most was watching my family spend two solid hours brimming with excitement and amazement. They were unabashed in their awe. The “cool factor” was off the charts. C scored a major victory with this particular trip; it was fun to watch her own personal triumph.

Another item checked off on C’s post-cancer bucket list. Nice!

Travel is not Glamourous. Destinations Are…

Dawn breaks through the large plate glass windows at the gate in Portland International Airport. The sky shows a continuum of ever-lightening shades of gray, bordered by the black sillouette of the tree-lined hillsides around town. With each passing minute, the grays shift to bluish tones, harbinger of the sun’s imminent arrival.

Back at home, just eight miles away, the rest of the family are not yet awake. Sleeping warm under the covers of their beds, still minutes away from the buzzing of their alarm clocks and the start to their busy Monday.

Me? Today is a travel day. To Boston. For a tradeshow and conference with business contacts. Up at 4:30am to make a 7:30am flight. I’ll be up and busy until 11pm Eastern time, easily. Probably later, given that my body clock is set to a timezone three hours behind Boston. Which makes for a long, long day.

Sunday, September 20, 2009

The Cat Has A Polyp Too

Neko, the aging Persian, has a throat polyp. It infringes on his breathing. It seems to be growing rather rapidly. We notice a definite change in his breathing on a weekly basis. Surgery can remove it but costs multiple thousands of dollars. Steroids MAY slow it down, but that's the best we can hope for. As I write this, Neko is on my lap, relaxed, and almost choking on his own throat. Each inhale makes a sucking sound like a drain under suction.

We'll have to make a choice soon. Just like the choice we had to make with Aki back in August. And when that time comes, we'll have just two pets: Shadow the cat and a beta fish. This is a marked change from two years ago, when we had four humans and six pets in the house.

C's recent polyp seems to have been benign. With Neko, it doesn't really matter. We're not operating on him,regardless of the nature of the polyp. We'll just keep him comfortable. And I'll let him curl up in my lap any time he likes. He's earned this respectful treatment through fifteen years of family service.

Friday, September 18, 2009

Nutcracker Audition Update

M got a response from the School of Oregon Ballet Theater yesterday at class… she’s been invited to attend the rehearsals for Nutcracker.

The invitation letter was carefully written. Being invited to rehearsals does not guarantee a performance opportunity, just that the student is allowed to attend rehearsals and learn the part. The student’s performance at rehearsal is how they will make their final selections.

Wow.

M’s rehearsals are at noon on Saturdays, starting this coming Saturday, running through the end of October.

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Rick Steves’ Article on Packing Light on CNN.com

CNN today is  running an article from Rick Steves, the professional European travel expert. The article is on strategies for packing light.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/TRAVEL/09/17/europe.travel.packing/index.html

It was rather validating for me to read how Steve travels. I have learned to travel almost identically to Rick over the years. When C and I did our pilgrimage to Israel, we did check one bag each – our expedition-sized internal frame backpacks. Otherwise, we just carried on what we needed for the flight, plus a couple survival items in case the bags were delayed.

It’s a good article for travelers. I’m blogging it here so as to not lose it.

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Hey, Who’s The New Kid?

R and M have been going to fencing class most of the summer. I’ve blogged about it before. I think the timing was somewhat inspired, to be honest. Here’s why.

Turns out that the Fencing studio does a lot more business during the school year (go figure!), and that class attendance drops to almost zero for the summer months. That meant that, while M and R were just starting out, they got to do all their crazy, clumsy, how-do-I-do-this-again? stuff in relative obscurity. Everyone else, who’s been fencing longer, was on vacation. R and M had the instructor all to themselves for ten weeks uninterrupted.

So. Now, the rest of the students have returned. They’re picking up where they left off, but there’s a new kid in each respective class. And – surprise! surprise! – these new kids know a wee bit about the sport!

In both M’s class, and in R’s class, it’s the Johnson kids who seem to regularly get used as examples of what to do. It’s the Johnson kids who pay the best attention to the instructor. It’s the Johnson kids (R, specifically) who have the basics down enough to elicit public praise from the instructor.

This is a darned good thing. Especially for R.

Last night, for example. There are four boys in R’s class. Zach, the instructor, drilled them on parry-riposte for the first half of class, then had them spar with those same drills to finish class. In R’s case, he was consistently outscoring the other boys. Now, I don’t mean to take away from R, but it wasn’t so much that he was all that good. Rather, he was just not making mistakes. The other three were making technique mistakes all over the place. All R did was do the drills correctly, wait for a mistake from his opponent, then take the easy touch when the mistake happened. And, like I said, the other three made enough mistakes that R didn’t have to wait very long. Interestingly enough, when the other boys sparred with themselves, with both sides making lots of mistakes, the sparring seemed evenly matched. It wasn’t until they sparred with R that their overall weakness in the drills became apparent.

So, Zach debriefed each of the four after sparring. To each boy he asked the question, “How did you get touched during the drill?” and each boy did a self-analysis of the mistakes they made. R was last in this process. Zach turned to R and said “How did you get…No, strike that. How was it that you so easily made all those touches?” Zach took R’s answer and used it as a lesson for the other three. Part of Zach’s lesson: in fencing, the point often comes only because your opponent made a mistake. if your mistake comes after theirs; it won’t matter. Because their mistake got you the point.

Then, after dismissing class, Zach made a beeline to me, saying “If R keeps fencing like he did just now, none of these other three will ever touch him. When he just listens and does what I tell him, good things happen.”

M’s class is different, but the theme holds. M is, by far, the smallest in her class. And last Tuesday was her first time with the full class of children. A couple of the other girls – a little older and feeling well-established in the class – did a little bit of verbal putting down of M. That didn’t last long. Zach jumped right in, defending M by saying  that “she knows quite a bit about fencing. She’s been coming all summer while you’ve been on vacation.” A bit later, Zach used M as an example to the rest of the class for good footwork.

I can’t help be feel quite proud of my kids. as they both gravitate toward this unexpected sport. It’s something else to watch them both delight in getting suited up. M wears this little plastic breastplate under her jacket. R wears knickers now, as well as a jacket. They take very little prodding to get ready for fencing. They are clearly very self motivated by the sport. And it’s a lovely thing.

Looks like the last remaining piece of R’s gymnastics equipment has been sold. I have two interested buyers. The transition seems to be complete imminently. M auditions for Nutcracker in three days… wish her luck.

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Peaks and Valleys

An acquaintance of mine posted this to their FaceBook today:

“…needs to mellow out and remember life is a journey… peaks and valleys, peaks and valleys, and more peaks and valleys!” Enjoy it.”

That’s a great thing to post, and I’m grabbing hold of that for today. In these current, difficult times – as the economy comes out of a flat spin – we all face more than our customary share of difficulties.  That’s true in The Typhoon, too. Lots of valleys. The business of running a family is generally harder right now. Things aren’t always easy to achieve now, where they used to be almost effortless.

And lots of peaks, if one looks in the right places. Time to take stock of the recent high points standing proud above the Johnson Typhoon.

  • C doesn’t have any new cancer. Quite the opposite; her body is working overtime to return to normal full biological function. She’s going in for a routine outpatient surgery-like procedure next week; then that’ll all be over with.
  • School started today. The kids ride the bus now… both from the SE house and, later, from the SW house. This will save us adults hours each week, and much gasoline. As for the kids, they’ve already figured out that the bus is good homework time… letting them play worry-free at home.
  • R has been making good progress with his archery skills. This last weekend, at the beach, R was hitting a 18” circular target from 30 yards (90 feet!) with regularity. Even when he missed, he’d still have scored on a full-sized competition target. He just might finish archery merit badge later this month.
  • R also has found the thinking patterns and initial sense of organization that he so desperately needs to get through his school day.
  • Today is M’s first day as a Level 1 student at SOBT. She auditions for The Nutcracker in about two weeks.
  • M’s second top front tooth – the one we’ve been awaiting for almost a year – is finally breaking through her gums. She’s been dealing with just that one top-front, all by its lonesome, for long enough. I’m glad she’s finally getting the mate.
  • The SE house is so darned close to completely packed that it’s amazing. C has done a phenomenal job on this. We still have three weeks before we get keys; something like six weeks before we actually move.
  • The house didn’t show over the holiday weekend, but it’s showing today. Yet another showing. There’s no shortage of lookers. Now, let’s get this thing SOLD!!
  • I’ve got the SE house posted at a government building downtown, where a number of newly appointed officials from out of town will be arriving shortly…wish me luck. Buy, lease or rent --- any will work.
  • The whole family (cats included) is getting accustomed to Aki’s absence. Family members have been discussing the idea of getting another dog. This weekend was the first time we’ve gone to the beach without Aki. My folks’ dog, Tilly, has changed, too…suddenly taking to sleeping on the kids’ beds, and waiting for their return. This has been a pretty noticeable change in Tilly’s behavior and started just about the same time Aki passed on. Even at a distance, Tilly seemed to know that she’s become the dog for the time being.
  • Work is good for N. No need to say any more.
  • The local professional network has become much, much more active of late. After a good 18 months of unusual quiet (understandable, given the times), suddenly the network is full of people calling out, and checking-in. It’s like hearing the birds of spring again, after an exceptionally long winter. It’s a good sign.

I think I’ll spend some admiring those peaks, as they stick above the swirl of the Typhoon, and forget for a moment the valleys below. My acquaintance is right; it is indeed a journey.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Relocation Officially Under Way

The PODS unit was picked up yesterday. We’ll have legal access to the SW Portland house shortly. Some fresh paint, maybe some new carpet, if required. Then we’ll have the movers help us make the jump.

The house contents are whittling down to the minimum. Should be easy for the movers, overall.

Target date to be done-done with the move? October 31.

By that time, we should be settled in nicely. I hope for that… the ‘nicely’ part… that’s what I hope for…

UPDATES:

  • The SE house showed three times over the weekend, once more scheduled for tomorrow.
  • Recent real estate news is upbeat and good. We need that second wave of buyers to take action in the market. US home sales rose 3.2% in July, beating the forecast.
  • Manufacturing indicators were up for last month – the numbers actually show growth in the economy for the first time since January 2008.